After the Death of a Child

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Offering Compassion in Sorrow

Our team at the University of Michigan Health would like to express our heartfelt sympathy for your loss.

The staff of C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital and Von Voigtlander Women’s Hospital wish to express our deepest sympathy. We know there were many hopes and dreams for your child and now the unimaginable has happened. It is traumatic to lose a child and while many may grieve, people grieve in different ways.

We hope these web pages will be helpful as you address necessary tasks following a child’s death and as you address your emotional well-being to experience healthy grieving.  We are here for you.

Contact Us

Office of Decedent Affairs

Monday-Friday, 8 am-5 pm

Phone: 734-232-4919

Supporting Grieving Families: Adult Loss

If you are struggling with the profound grief that follows the loss of an adult loved one, we are here to offer kindness and support. While this page is dedicated to those coping with the death of a a child, please know that specialized resources for this unique type of bereavement are accessible to you. For assistance navigating the emotional journey after the passing of an adult, we invite you to make use of the resources and guidance provided in our Adult Loss Grief Support section.

After the Death of a Loved One

Following the Loss of Your Child

Seek support with calls and arrangements after child loss. Guidance for organ donation, autopsy, and funerals is available.

Financial and Legal Concerns

Get help with finances and legalities after child loss, including social security, Medicaid, and other aid.

Remembering Your Child

Find ways to honor your child's memory through holidays, charitable acts, and Michigan Medicine's memorial events.

Living with Grief

The deepest pain comes from mourning a child. Your heart aches; you try to mask the grief. Find help on our Living with Grief page.

Additional Resources and Support

Embracing support honors your child's memory and aids healing. Access programs for self-care and family support in our offerings.

Child Loss Memorial Services

Annual memorials honor lost children and perinatal loss with remembrance events and a dedicated tree ceremony.

Support Through Sorrow's Journey
Michigan Medicine strives to ensure that everyone nearing the end of their life receives compassionate care and is treated with dignity and respect. We are committed to providing care, information and support to families and caregivers before, during, and after a death has occurred. Your feedback will help us improve the quality of care provided to all patients and families.

Feedback Survey

We realize that remembering the day your child died may be difficult. Sharing your experience may be helpful to you and others. We hope you will take a moment and participate in the care at end of life survey.